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Find a Therapist Who Gets YOU

You’ve talked to friends, read all the books, you even tried therapy and talked to a doctor, but things aren’t changing. You need an expert who truly knows what it takes to help you not only find relief but to find your way to a better life. You want to build a relationship with someone you trust, who gets you, and won’t judge you for your relationship because it’s same-sex or doesn’t have the same makeup as someone else’s.

Schedule your free 20-minute phone consultation to learn more about counseling in San Marcos and Cypress and start finding your way back to yourself, with less anxiety and more ease.


About Me

Hello! I’m Rebecca Ray (she, her, hers), a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist-Associate (#203666), C-SAT Candidate and the owner of Ray Family Therapy of San Marcos and Cypress, Texas. I am under the supervision of David M. Lawson, Ph.D., LMFT-S, #2137.

I constantly have my nose in a book, research article, or am engaged in advanced trainings to help you! I’m here so you can ditch the shame and perfectionism. I have specialized training in EMDR, which helps people reduce or resolve anxiety, anger, depression, and PTSD. I am also trained in a task-based approach that treats sex addiction. I love working with couples and absolutely love Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I am serious about helping couples reignite passion, sexual intimacy, and equality in their relationship. 

In my free time, I enjoy reading, writing, and hiking with my three Labrador Retrievers or taking selfies with my 6-year-old.

Buddy (age 3), General (age 2), June (age 7)

You should also know that I’m terrible at Just Dance, and my kids beat me every time we play. I also love meeting friends for coffee and practice yoga. I am married and have three kids ranging in ages 6-14, so I understand the stress and demands on modern families. I too, found myself sitting on the back burner, and I am also personally all too familiar with the grief surrounding miscarriage and perinatal loss. I am here to walk with you on a journey of healing and growth.

Call me to find out how to ditch shame and perfectionism.

I’d love to talk with YOU!

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